Calm, Kind & Cooperative

Helping Dogs Feel Comfortable with Handling

In this video, I’m working with two Border Terriers to show how handling can be calm, cooperative, and reward-based. Our goal is always to help dogs feel comfortable, confident, and in control — especially during those everyday care routines like checking eyes, cleaning ears, or using grooming tools.

Bradley & Peggy know the drill — slow, calm, and always their choice

Let’s talk about the concept of emotional resilience through positive learning history.

When a dog builds up a history of positive experiences around something — like being handled, groomed, or examined — they’re far more likely to bounce back if something

unexpected or uncomfortable happens. This is because their brain already associates those situations with safety and rewards.

But if their first experiences are negative or frightening, it can be much harder to change how they feel later. You’re essentially starting from a place of fear or distrust and need to rebuild confidence before you can even start teaching calm cooperation.

That’s why we teach positive associations with handling from our puppy classes right through to advanced sessions.

Each step is broken down into small, achievable parts so dogs always know what to expect. We start simply — gently touching a shoulder and rewarding calm, relaxed behaviour. As confidence grows, we add layers, introducing touches to more sensitive areas like the ears, eyes, and paws.

Once the dog is comfortable, we bring in equipment such as nail clippers, a brush, or a small plastic bottle to pretend applying eye drops. This helps dogs learn that these touches and movements aren’t anything to worry about.

Every stage is paired with plenty of rewards and, most importantly, the freedom to move away if they need a break. By giving dogs choices, we build trust — and that trust helps them stay relaxed and cooperative in real-life situations, whether at home or at the vet.

With a little time and kindness, even routine care can become a positive experience for everyone. 🐾

If you’d like to learn more about cooperative handling and reward-based training, join one of our classes or book a one-to-one session at: https://www.pawsforthoughtdogtraining.co.uk/